Top[ edit ] In BDSM, top can mean either a dominant partner see below in BDSM play such as flogging , binding , being master , humiliating , and sexual play , or a partner who applies stimulation to another, and who may or may not be dominant Topping from the bottom is a related BDSM term, meaning a person simultaneously adopts the role of bottom and dom. A service top is a person who applies sensation or control to a bottom, but does so at the bottom's explicit instruction. Bottom[ edit ] In BDSM, bottom can mean either a submissive partner see below in sexual play such as in being flogged, tied, humiliated, or made to serve , or a partner who receives stimulation from another, and who may or may not be submissive A bottom in BDSM does not have to be the receptive partner; for example, a female dominant may command her submissive to penetrate her. Switch[ edit ] A switch is someone who participates in BDSM activities sometimes as a top and other times as a bottom or in the case of dominance and submission sometimes as a dominant and other times as a submissive. This is sometimes referred to as being versatile.
April 9, Mitch Robertson was a little bit homely and so was his girlfriend Layla. They tended to suit one another rather well but Mitch always had the yearning to make love to a really beautiful woman, a fashion model would have done admirably. Layla wore glasses, had a rather large nose, big hips, and a very annoying laugh. As Mitch was no oil painting himself he resolved that she was as good as it was going to get and that was that. The couple they sat next to at the sessions.